all, at certain times in our life undergo a life changing event that
can bring much hardship and distress to us. With it often comes physical
and mental changes in the way we think and deal with daily life.
as when someone enters the military, they are pretty much unchanged for
the first few days, regardless of how much they are yelled at or
disciplined , they remain the same individual until they get the haircut
and a uniform.
after receiving a shearing and the personality that identified them
through their hair suddenly vanishes, they are transformed. No longer
are they the person they were five minutes ago, now they are a unit,
many transformed into one.
it is in our daily lives, a total transformation always includes a
physical transformation as well, you cannot have one without the other.
When we change on the inside, we also change on the outside, whatever is
going on inside of us always comes to fruition on the physical level.
That is why our physical appearance is so important.
that we all need to be ,or can be a raving gorgeous specimen of human
existence, but our appearance and demeanor do send a message to the
outside world of what is going on inside us and our attitude to and of
is seen all the time , after an individual undergoes an extremely
difficult situation in their life, they are transformed. Many times they
look older and beaten for the experience, but many times they take on a
new demeanor whereby they look and act much younger than they did
earlier in life. They display as certain confidence and ease about
themselves that reflect in their appearance. They become more attractive
because of their attitude,more than physical characteristics.
experience has had a positive effect on them and will enable them to
avoid and deal with future issues in a more positive and understanding
way. It is often through these so-called negative experiences we learn
and grow the most.
is no such thing as a negative or positive experience, it is only our
perception of it that is positive or negative. It is our responsibility
and life mission to turn it into something that will enable us to life a
better more fulfilling life.
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